- A longtime friend of Gabby Petito told Insider the missing 22-year-old wouldn't have run off on her own.
- "This is so out of character and I don't think anything that's going on is due to her own doing," Nikki Passannante said.
- Petito disappeared in late August while on a road trip with her boyfriend, who returned without her.
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Gabby Petito wouldn't have run off on her own, a longtime family friend told Insider on Friday.
"She would never ever disappear like this without her parents knowing where she is. This is so out of character and I don't think anything that's going on is due to her own doing," said Nikki Passannante, a 23-year-old waitress living in Long Island who grew up 15 minutes away from Petito.
"I think that something more devilish is going on," she added.
Passannante said Petito had been speaking to her mom at least once a day since she left home in July. When service was spotty, she would text instead. And when Petito wasn't answering for days, Passannante said, her parents tried contacting her fiance, Brian Laundrie. At that point, Laundrie wouldn't answer their calls either, Passannante said. That's when Petito's parents started to worry.
"She's just always been very up and out," Pasannante said. "She moved to Florida with her current boyfriend; they're always doing these road trips."
That's why Petito and Laundrie worked so well, Passannante said: "She thrived in the relationship because they both had similar goals of traveling and living a nomadic life."
But Passannante remained steadfast that going off on her own is something Petito absolutely would not have done.
"Petito is sweet, free-spirited, and selfless," Pasannante said. "There's always been a warmth about her. When people meet her, they instantly love her."
The meltdown seen on Moab City Police Department bodycam from August 12 didn't match that description, though. Passannante said she thinks Petito's mental health is "getting blown out of proportion," specifically that it is being called a "mental health" breakdown.
"It was a fight," Passannante said. "She mentioned OCD ... just because she was getting stressed out and little things were bothering her, which was getting her worked up. I don't think that's a normal, everyday thing. I think that was her explanation for why she was upset at the time and for why the fight started, but I think she was so upset in that video because she was in a fight with her boyfriend."
"I don't think her mental health was much different from anyone else our age. I mean, we all have a fair amount of anxiety," she added.
Passannante never met Laundrie but says he and Petito were still engaged when they embarked on their trip
Passannante said Petito and Laundrie met in high school and were in the same friend group, but she's never met him - even over the course of his two-year relationship with Petitio.
She knows people who know Laundrie, though, who described him as quiet and nice.
Passannante said Petito seemed happy in her relationship with Laundrie, though she thought it was "strange" the pair got engaged so quickly.
According to Passannante, the proposal was a surprise for Petito, but she was "excited and happy" about it.
The couple had begun to think about wedding plans and had asked Pasannante's cousin, Steven Evans, to photograph the event. Passannante said she was their backup photographer if Evans didn't want to travel to Florida.
She said the couple was still engaged as they embarked on their road trip out West and, unless they called off the wedding within the first week of their travels, she didn't know why Petito's mom, Nichole Schmidt, said the pair was no longer engaged. Passannante said the wedding date was pushed back to accommodate their travel schedule, though.
According to Passannante, the couple had two more planned stops left on their trip at the time of Petito's disappearance. She speculated they would have been back home in Florida by now.
Laundrie was named a person of interest in the case after he returned home from their road trip without Petito on September 1. Petito's parents filed a missing persons report on September 11. Laundrie's attorney has said Laundrie won't be making public statements as Petito's family has publicly pleaded for his help to find her. Police have said Laundrie hasn't talked to investigators, either.